Why Should I be an Organized Parent?How can I learn Self Discipline and gain control over my life.

We all know why routine is so important in a family.A clean and organized house definitely can become a calm,relaxing environment for you and your loved ones.But as much as we try to be in control of our daily actions and tasks,most of the time we fail and we feel useless.We are afraid to become vulnerable.We are afraid of admiting that we can't be perfect all the time.

Seems that social media created a high standard of life that's so difficult to reach,so here we are,trying to fit this new reality,where everybody has a perfect life,most probably just in pictures.

Life happens.I notice that we like to accumulate things,even though we don't necessarily use them.And when we have kids,the instinct of compulsive shopping is even more predominant.Why?Because we feel that we must always offer what's best for our families. It's an obligation. So we buy.And then we realize things won't replace love.Or mutual feelings.Or respect.

Instead,it might bring just frustration and worries,which eventually would lead to stress.

It's like a roller coaster.Now you're high,touching the sky and the moment after you're down,not knowing how to escape.

We need solutions and we want them to be quick and easy to follow.

The thing is,you can't become organized and with a perfect self discipline over night.You need to practice self control daily.You need to consacrate your time,in order to have results.You need to be consistent,and you need to believe in yourself. First as a human beeing,and then as a parent.

How can you start?

Taking baby steps. One change at a time.Take good attention on details,because details are the ones that make a difference.Always.

1. Make a daily planner.

2. Learn to declutter your house at least once a month.

3. The things you don't use,donate.Lead by example,so that your children can appreciate more what they have.

4. Recycle.Care for the plannet.

5. Take time to organize every corner of your home. I assure you it won't be easy at first,but once you start,you'll find new motivation to keep going

6. Create a family routine and then tranform it into a lifetime memory.I thing this advice I like the most.For me,it's life changing.I like to observe moments in our daily family routine that are so simple and ordinary,but for us are so important.The relation between us and our childrens is natural,and full of happiness and joy.And we must all experience that everyday.

Life is about memories.Life is about family and people you care.Life is about you.

If you don't love you first,no one will.If you don't respect your body,don't expect to be healthy.If you don't try to become more organized,don't expect to have a clean and decluttered house.Let me tell you:a house full of things and with toddlers it meens just one word:chaos,my dear.

I experienced that.I was daily cleaning,exhausted,overwhelmed with tasks. My house was sometimes like a jungle.Until I realized it's up to me and only me to fix things. To practice self discipline first,and then to extend it in all areas of my personal and professional life.And guess what?

It does work.I learned how important it is to have faith in yourself. To allow yourself to learn by your own mistakes. To continue,even if you don't see the end. Because when it's getting harder,that's actually when you evolve the most.

If you're afraid of risking and you stay where you are,you will never know what life can offer you.

God has a plan with every single person on Earth. A special Plan.His plan for you is different then His plan for me.But it's always up to you to discover the unknown.

Sort your life.Sort your house.See what you don't use,and let it go.How can you regain control over your life? By starting.If you are constantly inventing excuses for you to fail,then you are sabotating youself for nothing.

In the end,it's not the perception of others about you and your life that matters. It's your happiness.Your family.Your future.Take time to invest in good routines today,so that tomorrow you can become more organized and happy with the choices you made at the right time.